Individual Success
In December of 2003 a
young teenage girl found the courage to report
that she had been molested for several years
by her biological father. Following this allegation
she found her family in turmoil: her father was arrested,
her mother was torn between her daughter and her husband,
and her younger brother was trying his best to be her
protector.
The Department of Children and Families
allowed the children to remain with their mother and
the family relocated to their Grandmother's home.
The Ocala Police Department made a referral to
The Marion County Children's Advocacy Center, Kimberly's
Cottage, for counseling services and a Multidisciplinary
(MDT) Team Staffing. The MDT met to discuss
the case and created an Action Plan to ensure that
this young victim was protected. In the beginning
this mother appeared protective and compassionate
with her daughter, but the situation rapidly deteriorated.
This young lady reported to the staff of Kimberly's
Cottage that her mother was continually bombarding
and bribing her to recant the story of abuse. Her
mother had also made the decision to go live with
her husband following his release from jail while
leaving the children with friends. These
allegations were also reported to the Department of
Children and Families (DCF) and law enforcement
by the child victim and through a Multidisciplinary
Staffing Team update. Because
this child was able to trust her DCF case worker, the
VOCA staff of Kimberly's Cottage and the victim advocates
at Ocala Police Department, DCF was able to intervene
and remove these children from a harmful environment.
The children are now placed with friends of the
family. They
are safe, thriving, and receiving VOCA funded counseling
and advocacy services at Kimberly's Cottage. This
case is an example of the success achieved by the Children's
Advocacy Center's team approach. With community
agencies working together, networking and reviewing
cases, we have an increased level of knowledge and
involvement with our clients which enables us to meet
their needs and begin the healing process.
Group Success
The evenings at Kimberly's Cottage have become
a special time for healing, acceptance, and moving forward.
While most organizations are closing up for the evening,
Kimberly's Cottage is just getting started. There is one
particular evening every week when a special group of girls
come together to talk about the reason they are here in
counseling and more importantly the reason they will not always
need to be here at Kimberly's Cottage.
This unique group of pre-teenage girls seek each others company
and support to discuss not only being a survivor of childhood
sexual abuse, but also to discuss the many feelings and emotions
that go along with dealing with the type of victimization most of
us cannot even begin to imagine. Tracey is a 12 year old who survived
sexual abuse by a neighbor in her apartment complex. In her first
Group session, this fragile child was unable to even state the abuse
she had endured; "my name is Tracey, and I like cats" were her
opening words, instead of "my name is Tracey, and I was sexually
abused." Tracey is strong however, and she pushed herself to attend
each session allowing healing to begin. By the last Group Session she
was not only able to admit she had survived abuse, but she was able
to remind the other girls they too would heal.
Justine, a 10 year old survivor of sexual abuse by her biological
father has emerged as the young leader of this close knit Group.
Though it has taken months of intensive counseling and support from
her family, she has often been overheard reassuring her Group Mates,
stating "we are not alone, look at all of us." Tracey and Justine's
resiliency are proof that children do heal and the trauma of
childhood abuse can be overcome.
The Kimberly's Cottage Child Sexual Abuse Survivors group tackles
such difficult topics as Good Touch/Bad Touch, reporting abuse, the
impact their abuse has had for them, their relationships with others,
and how to continually press forward in the healing process by
building self esteem and learning about positive changes. The Group
Facilitators use various techniques to work with this great group of
girls, including group process, self disclosure, positive feedback,
peer support, the therapeutic use of art, journaling, role playing,
and problem solving. Each girl brings a unique dynamic to the Group,
challenging not only each other, but also themselves.
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