Imagine you are seven years old. Pretend just
for a moment that you finally found the courage to tell
a loved one that someone, a family member, has been
hurting you. You are scared and embarrassed and frightened.
This person that has hurt you may have said that if
you tell it will break up your family or that your mommy
or daddy will be mad at you. Now the person that you
told is crying and yelling, and is going to tell someone
else. Next you have to go to the police station and
answer embarrassing questions. You are wondering why
you have to go to the place for the bad guys. You are
afraid.
Over
the next few days you are taken to more places to see
even more people and tell these strangers your story
over and over. One place has a big video camera in a
room with no windows and no toys. The next place has
a doctor that you have never met before. This doctor
may examine parts of your body that you are uncomfortable
with, and may have to take pictures of the bruises or
scars you have. The next time you have to tell your
story you are so tired and do not feel like telling
everything. Your family is still acting so strangely.
The adult was right; your family does appear to be falling
apart. Should you say you were lying? Do the other kids
at school know? Should you just stop talking about it?
Now, imagine that you are that same child but you live
in Marion County and there is a place called Kimberly's
Cottage.
Imagine that you are seven years old. Pretend just
for a moment that you finally found the courage to tell
a loved one that someone, a family member, has been hurting
you. You are scared and embarrassed and frightened. You
and your family go to Kimberly's Cottage. It looks like a
house for kids. A nice lady greets you and shows you to the
playroom. Then she introduces you to a nice man who will ask
you a few questions. You go into a room that is made for kids.
You do not even notice the camera that is in the birdhouse, or
that there are people from Law Enforcement, Child Protection
Team and the Department of Children and Families monitoring your
interview in the very next room. You also do not notice that the
man talking to you is wearing an earpiece so those other people
can ask questions without scaring you.
When the nice man is finished asking you questions, that same
person from earlier talks to you and your family. She even takes
you to a special room with new toys and blankets to pick out anything
you want.
You may need to have a medical exam there, but that same nice lady
is going to introduce the doctor and stay right outside the room.
Meanwhile, your family is talking to an advocate who is explaining
some of the signs of abuse, some common emotions, and how to talk
to friends and family about the abuse. You can tell right away that
your family feels a lot better and you know that everything will be okay.
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